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Practising with family and friends: the rules
Who can sit with you, the insurance and L plates you need, and how to make practice between lessons count.
Updated 18 October 20262 min read
Practising between lessons is one of the best ways to build confidence and become test-ready sooner. But there are strict rules, for you and for whoever sits next to you.
Who can supervise you
Your supervisor must:
- be 21 or over
- be qualified to drive the type of car you're learning in: for a manual car, they must hold a full manual licence
- have held their full licence for at least 3 years
- be fit to supervise: they mustn't be over the drink-drive limit or using a hand-held phone
Your supervisor can be fined, get penalty points or be banned if they break these rules. Only an approved driving instructor can charge you for supervising your driving.
Insurance
You must be insured to drive the car. You can be added to the owner's policy as a named learner driver, or buy separate learner driver insurance, which protects the owner's no-claims discount. Driving without insurance is a serious offence.
The car
The car must be:
- roadworthy, taxed and with a valid MOT if it needs one
- showing L plates on the front and back (D plates in Wales). Take them off when the car is driven by someone who isn't a learner.
Where you can drive
You can drive on most public roads. You can't drive on motorways unless you're with an approved driving instructor in a car with dual controls.
Making practice count
- Ask your instructor what to practise. Your lesson feedback in the app shows what you've mastered and what needs work.
- Start somewhere quiet, such as a quiet residential area, and build up to busier roads.
- Practise what you've already learned. Leave brand-new skills to your lessons, where the car has dual controls.
- Mix it up: different times of day, different weather, roads you don't know.
- Keep calm in the car. A relaxed supervisor makes a much better teacher. Agree in advance how they'll tell you about mistakes.
Common questions
Can my supervisor have a phone in their hand?
No. Your supervisor is responsible for you and must be able to take control of the situation. Using a hand-held phone while supervising a learner is against the law.
Can I drive on the motorway with my parents?
No. Learners can only drive on motorways with an approved driving instructor in a car with dual controls.
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